By Richard A. Isay
What's love acquired to do with it? every little thing, in keeping with Richard Isay's expert and illuminating examine the position of romance in glossy homosexual existence. I hugely suggest this booklet for individuals of any iteration and partnership status.
--Dean H. Hamer, Ph.D., writer of The technological know-how of hope and The God Gene
""Richard Isay bargains whatever much better than uncomplicated bromides and fake desire. during this ebook, he demanding situations us with a provocative, illuminating, and eventually hopeful examine ourselves and explains how these folks who yearn to like and be enjoyed (and who doesn't?) can top locate happiness and therapeutic in a dedicated relationship.""
--Eric Marcus, writer of The Male Couple's consultant and jointly Forever
""Many homosexual males (and others, too) tend to locate this e-book particularly fascinating and important. In a sequence of vividly illuminating case histories and with a psychoanalyst's intensity and readability of perception, Richard Isay lucidly explains why homosexual males have specific hassle in constructing and maintaining loving relationships and the way they could sensibly increase their probabilities of doing so.""
--Harry G. Frankfurt, Ph.D., writer of On Bullshit and the explanations of Love
""Richard Isay's portrayals of homosexual men's lives usually are arguable. Isay isn't the stereotypical psychoanalyst who sits quietly whereas his sufferers ramble--and we are the entire greater for that. He has anything to assert and what he says is worthy listening to. This provocative ebook can be learn through an individual who yearns for yet hasn't but came across actual love.""
--William Rubenstein, Founding Director of the Williams Institute on Sexual Orientation legislation and previous Director of the ACLU Lesbian & homosexual Rights Project
""Based on Dr. Isay's 3 many years of expertise operating with homosexual males in remedy, this can be a deeply considerate examine of the problems homosexual males may perhaps adventure with falling and staying in love. For a homosexual guy, studying this booklet could cause him to revisit a few darkish locations alongside his personal life's trip, however it also will provide him a glimpse of the self-affirmation and skill for swap which are the pursuits of gay-positive psychotherapy.""
--Simon LeVay, Ph.D., writer of Human Sexuality and Queer Science
""Indispensable insights from America's wisest observer of homosexual relationships.""
--Charles Kaiser, writer of The homosexual Metropolis
""Gay humans search the liberty to marry for a similar mixture of purposes as non-gay humans, and for many, love and dedication are crucial. Drawing on his unprecedented services and many years of reports from his sufferers, Richard Isay explores the demanding situations and cost of romantic love--how to beat our pasts and increase our current lives at home--as we construct a way forward for larger equality and inclusion in society.""
--Evan Wolfson, writer of Why Marriage Matters